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Thursday, December 20, 2007

Dutch Diplomat - wht a jerk

I have been spending my Raya Haji on the internet. The whole day! Won some bbp's for Michael's a/c at pokerpages and then continue surfing the net. Fun huh? :(

Anyways, I found this story about a Dutch vice consul and his wife who adopted Jade, a 4mths old baby girl 7 years ago from South Korea. Nothing wrong with that right? The wrong came when those sickos decided to 'return' her saying tht they could no longer care for her because of the girl's remoteness emotional. Can you believe that shit? The couple even had the nerve to say, "Jade did not adapt to Dutch culture or food". Who in the right mind would believe such tale? The girl was 4months old when she was adopted for god's sake! Show me any 4 months old that can decide what she/he will eat and I will believe your tale. You shithead! You had her for 7 fucking years and you never even applied for a Dutch nationality for her and you worked at the consulate! You just simply 'dropped" her off to the Social Welfare dept in HK like an unwanted old pair of jeans.

Sigh... i just have to find this out today, dont i? Please do read more here and you'll see why im so damn angry.

21 comments:

Nadia said...

OMG! Agreed - they ARE jerks! What morons? Suka hati je nak return balik macam takde nilai. I hate these type of people! And no, I don't think that she didn't adapt - that's just some lame excuselah. She was adopted at 4 months! Not 10 years old or something. Sheeeessshhh! Thank god she's happy with another foster family now.

Cat Cat said...

Man, this is really sickening... What a bunch of bullshit??? Trust me. This couple will never have a happy life. They don't deserve anything and will rot in hell.

Geramnya I...

I Cook4Fun said...

Farina, jerk is a nice word to call them. They are such an "A**" and full of s***. How can they do that to a child. Like you said they had her since she was 4 months old and saying that she can't adapt to dutch culture and food!! What a bunch of crock!! Anyway, since this news got the world wide media attention I am sure his job at the consulate won't be secure anymore :)

Kerp (Ph.D) said...

the posterey couple are just weird fellas. what do you expect from them blarrdee dutch anyway? the excuses given were silly and nobody in the right mind will buy it. one cant help but to believe there are simply other reasons behind it more than just calvinism and pannekoeken.

cakapaje said...

Salam Princess,

Foremost, it seems we're 2 of a kind...nothing much better to do on days off :). But do go here and download the brick game; its fun and very challenging towards the later stage. http://chongzhemin.com/2007/12/very-cool-brick-game.html

Now, for the bloody *&)^$ jerk! But its useless wasting our breath on them. Rather save it for the poor child who now, may be more lost than ever. Imagine the child is now a foreigner (language & custom) in her own land! Haih! The Korean ministry should intervene in such case.

Ms eNVy said...

What a whole lot of BS! I just cannot see the logic of their reasoning but hey guess some ppl when the push comes to shove .. they just don't have it to just see things through.. poor little girl :( Well I hope she'll find a better home ..

By the way .. you spent time surfing the net .. I spent time this Raya Haji .. volunteering to keep my mind off .. not being home .. and trying to stop the Grinch from destroying x'mas for me and family!

PrincessJournals said...

nadia, memang sakit hati bila baca stories like this. those 2 shudn be let loose!

cath, amen to tht!

Gert, im not sure abt anything done to them. fr my reading, apparently the dutch gov is backing their action. :(

well kerp, theyr educated ppl so i expect them to care for the child not just tossed her like a garbage. those bastards!

Salam CA, im not sure if im up for a board game. i always lose playing boardgame and it pisses me off. i dont like tht. hehe. il stick to poker tho. lets play some poker! abt the girl, thts exactly wht michael and i talked abt last night. she has to be confused shes shes korean, raised in a dutch family and now back to living w a hongkie family. a foreigner in her own skin indeed. :(

Norma, memang takde logic langsung. tak taulah diorang pakai otak ke tidak. like Cath said, hope they rot in hell!

Rose's World said...

I understand your feeling! Really ****! I dont know why they adopt her in first place, if cant give her all those rights and care for her like real daughter! Think they are "somebody", simply adopt to show off??

But fortunate to hear that she is adopting well to new family and environment in HKG.

Akmal said...

What the bloody HELL??? Since when children work the same way like diapers???
Those 2 look so educated, yet act stupid fellas with stupid jokes and stupid excuses. That is just so sTOOpid! These fellas need some lessons on responsibility.
Poor the little one, innocent, but got to face the challence of life at such age...

Daphne Ling said...

Hi Kak Farina,

Oh My God! That's sick...sick...sick...

How the girl must feel, being so 'unwanted'? I haven't (and probably won't) read the full story, and I am already soo darn pissed...And ergh...

I don't think I want to read the whole thing...

PrincessJournals said...

Rose, thank u for visiting. i, too have a feeling tht the 'adoption' was more abt showing off. :(

Akmal, wht to do? being educated is not enough to qualify one as a human. jerks come in all shapes.

Daphne, i hope shes adopting the hk culture and food w no problem unlike dutch's.

Big Boys Oven said...

these are really sick people, some more vice consul.... do not fit to be human!

Tembam said...

Princess this story made me so sad. How can they do that and still call themselves her parents? They should just have adopted a dog or cat for a pet than a child. I hope the little girl will be better off among Asians. Sometimes I wonder if all those celebrity adoptions of Asian and African children haven't started an unhealthy trend. If the adoptive parents really and truly can love and care for the child for the rest of their lives, it would be good. But in all things, sometimes the apple you pick from the same tree may not taste as good as another, then what do you do? So sad all around...

kina said...

OMG! Who do they think they are?

You r right princess, I am piss too...

If she is half human, she wont be doing that...

I guess, the kid is no longer convenient to them, its time to dispose her!

I cringed everytime I come across such nonsense!!

Geram weiiii... Can we put them at the leopard cage in Zoo Negara?

Ooooppss marah sgt lupa lak ketuk pintu dulu princess... Knock! Knock!

My first time here!

PrincessJournals said...

Tembam, i think it does. seems like some ppl think tht adopting is the 'IN'-thing to do nowadays and they can brag abt it. they shud have stricter rules when ppl like tht wanna adopt. if they cant feed, bath, change diapers themselves than they shudn adopt.

Kina, welcome. welcome. :) thank u for visiting. memang takde rasa kemanusiaan betul kan? tak mau lah letak kat zoo negara kita. biarlah letak kat dutch zoo aje. :P

Pi Bani said...

They said "Jade did not adapt to Dutch culture or food".

I shall just take it this way: They make very lousy parents that Jade decided to retaliate at such a young age so she could be sent off elsewehere.

There... sounds better...

PrincessJournals said...

Pi, ur too funny. yelah, they mustv been such a terrible parents tht even a 4mths old cudn take it. lol!

bbo, sorrylah i ter-missed ur comment. if theyr not human, wht r they? alients? gulp!

Mat Salo said...

Easy.. easy there Farina. Plenty of these jerks around. But I truly question their motivation. I'm sure they had to go thru' a rather rigorous procedure in the early stages of the adoption process and the administrators would've have caught anything less-than-sincere. Still shaking and scratching my head... Pity the poor girl.

zewt said...

happy new year..!

PrincessJournals said...

MS, susah nak sabar bila baca stories like this. but im just glad tht the girl is w a family tht loves her.

Zewt, happy new year to u too!

manjalara said...

Woww...can't believe the couple did such things like nothing's wrong...Poor girl. Thanks for highlighting the story!